Horse Women vs Gamer Dude

What is it with horse women? Many guys say they’re an incredible bang but are also some of the most mentally unstable.

I think men and women have specific roles and responsibilities. Both are hardwired to receive emotional fulfillment and a sense of pleasure in achieving these.

Men receive this from accomplishing and leading.

Women receive this from nurturing and submitting.

Take a look at how a child plays with toys to get an idea of the difference in male and female gender characteristics.

If a man wanted to fill his sense of accomplishment but he wanted it as cheap as possible, where would he turn?
Video games.

People see video games as an outlet. I’m considering them an inlet. An inlet of cheap accomplishment. Fake accomplishment. When someone finishes hours of hard core gaming, they feel accomplishment. How could you not? You just spent 3 hours battling against an enemy and now you’ve won! You did it! Men are hardwired to go and do things, achieve things, set goals, work together, get up early, work late. The problem is this requires effort. The way in which a man avoids responsibilities but still fills that gap is to play games where he gets the mental reward but bypasses the responsibility of doing actual work that may have an element of risk to it.

Similarly, women are built to nurture and love. If you wanted to exploit this such as the gamer, what would require your maximum care and attention? A damn horse. Horses are the largest stupidest animal you can own. Cheap to buy and horrendously expensive to keep. They are dumb and therefore don’t require any intellectual effort of the women leaving only her emotions in play. They are huge so require endless care. They need constant attention – if not directed at the horse, it’s to its food, clothes, masseuse, blacksmith, vet etc. The perfect way for a woman to fill her emotional gap while simultaneously avoiding the actual responsibility of her calling.

Mucking round with horses ultimately leaves them unfulfilled because they are following a fake happiness. They may as well be cat ladies with more budget and room.

Further – You can’t submit to a horse. Do women also like being in control of such a mass of muscle?


Mainstream Media Experement

I’m sure you know more about one topic than 99% of the world.

Search the main stream media for anything on this topic.

Observe how well they screw it up and don’t know what they’re talking about.

Do you think that’s a fluke and they only hashed your topic?

Or do they do this every time, but we don’t pick up since we’re not an expert in everything.

Information ad infinitum

The wealth of online information is both a blessing and a curse. Humans have a drive to gain knowledge like we have a drive to eat. If you spend too much time eating you get fat. If you spend too much time consuming information what happens?

Nothing happens.

You’ll sit at your computer and get fat.
I know, its happened to me while I studied.

Information only has value to your life if there’s an action associated with it. Information devoid of action is useless.

I recently closed my Facebook account to avoid distraction while I finished my degree. I thought it was a big deal and I thought I would miss it.

You can become addicted to information. Information these days is cheap.

There is information worth knowing and information that isn’t. Consuming hours of sterile information like a Facebook news feed is the intellectual version of eating a whole bag of Doritos.

99% of information you get from social media is useless. Do you remember what you read on your news feed yesterday? Or was it just filling a hole.

If you learn something, but never execute on it, it only exists in your head – it doesn’t actually exist in the tangible world. If you went every day of your life learning but never doing, you would end up with nothing.

I’ve just spent 6 years at university. That will all be a waste if I don’t start doing. Which is a whole lot harder.

It’s far too easy to sit at a computer and pretend cheap information has value.

Red Pill Porn

There is amongst the “no fap” movement a realization that the longer one watches internet porn unrestrained, one ends up progressively seeking more hard core, nasty scenes to get off.

I think there is also a parallel for self improvement.

To get motivated to do something, often a swift kick in the pants is needed. The kick can be a motivational blog post, youtube video, podcast etc by someone who’s already done it.

The feeling is good. You get pumped on the idea of achieving or doing something.

For some this is enough – they’re off.

Others don’t execute. They sink back into their unfulfilled life to consume more sterile information, searching for the next article to spike their emotion. Though like the porn, the next one has to be more raw to get the same kick. Eventually you reach a blog like Bold and Determined and read 30 Days of Discipline. If you read this and don’t execute, you probably never will. You’ll simply endure life until it’s over.

This is a scary realization.




I start this blog initially to comment and commune with others rather than post.

I’m semi familiar with blogging and have previously racked up around 150 posts on my other blog which I’ve grown out (and up) of. A typical “look at me” blog I haven’t posted on for a long time.

I’m looking forward to posting anonymously although have no idea what I’ll say. I think the best bet for now (being early 20′s) is to just listen out for that ring of truth.